Dealing with
children with stubborn personalities and foul is difficult for parents. They
act sharply in all matters erosion basic ones such as eating and bathing
erosion go to sleep so they need special treatment by the parents. We must be
aware that beatings, mockery and ridicule is not the perfect solution to deal
with this child, this will increase the problem
How do you deal with a stubborn child, Educate
yourself
Personal stubborn child:
Not every child is
acting in accordance with the freedom and belief is a stubborn child, where it
is important to know the difference between a child who takes the decision by
something and stubborn child right before doing any act
A child with will
and capable of decision-making may be a creative and intelligent as they ask a
lot of questions to figure out the details that lead them to what they are
doing. These are some of the signs on the character of child actors
** A lot of
questions displays student knowledge
** Defending their
freedom and their decision furiously
** Bear
responsibility for what they are doing and trying to repair
** All children,
some tantrums may underlings but pig-headed children appear to have been
exaggerated anger Nobt
** Own leadership
abilities
** Trying to do
things according to their own perspective
But the good thing
in both types of children that research has shown they are not influenced by
those around them and even make their own decisions, which reduces their
exposure to harm from their friends or vulnerable to bad their actions
These are some of
the ways to deal with the stubborn child:
1. Listen and order:
Networking is a
two way street. If you want to listen to you stubborn child must listen to him
first so that some of the children who will Giralanaedin may have logic that
convinces you in doing
The problem is
that these children increase the amount of stubbornness they have if they feel
that you do not listen to what they say. Each time your child insists on doing
or not doing something that should be a talk to him and listen to the causes
and calmly based Barashadh to what is right and what is wrong
2. Do not force them connect with them:
When a child is
forced to do something to understand tend to do whatever you want and not the
solution for this is the will of anti-sense that make the child follows his
instinct and Traaqubh without being constrained so that they can communicate
with him and show him his fault in practice.
For example, when
you insist Talvk six years with the Mhahdhh television before going to sleep.
How do you deal with this situation ?? You must sit down with Jasmine and show
your interest, including watching and trying to discuss with him then you will
know the child is negotiating with him and will turn to respond to what you
want. When a channel of communication exists between the child and his parents
then it can become easier to handle them
3. Show a set of choices:
Children have
minds Mottaglh do not like to be telling them what to do. Tell your child
stubborn that he must go to bed at nine pm and all what you would get Ao no
word. Annoying it did its outlook for the pig-headed kids so try to give him
some choices, for example, when he goes to sleep Tell him you will want to read
you a bedtime story?
But do not overdo
choices as if asking him to choose what he wants to wear, this may offer it for
confusion and feel the challenge which increases the stubbornness but try to
offer him two choices, or three at the most
4. Calm:
Neurological and
talking loudly with the pig-headed children may eventually lead to a match for
the screams from both sides. Vabakh in children is a call to battle, which
pushes the child to respond similarly to defend the region and in the end,
things become worse. He tried to talk to the child as if he were an adult, so
give it the arguments and evidence to do or not to do something.
You must also get
rid of your stress and Aspetk all possible ways, meditation, Riyaadh, listening
to music anything may relaxes your nerves and makes you calm
5. respect them:
So that the child
respects you and respects your decisions must be respected as well. We will
show some examples of ways respect between parent and child:
** Cooperation
does not insist on the style directive
** Apply the rules
to all children and not exclude them a
** Sympathy with
them or reduce their feelings or thoughts
** Let your kids
do what they can be in their favor and do not try to impose on them a certain
template so that they trust in themselves
** Say what you
really mean what you say and do
And you must know
that the children no matter how they perceive indifference understand well your
actions
6. work with:
Stubborn child or
a strong will always be sensitive to the actions carried out by him. So you
should pay attention to the accent and your movements and the words you use
when you are with him and something he does not like him doing what preferences
to protect himself
** Let's use the
word 'we do or what we do not do so, rather than have to do it
** Use fun
activities and games with the stubborn child favored to win the affection and
make it do what you want
** You can also
defy funny or in a game to make it what you want Optimized
7. Negotiation:
Sometimes you need
to negotiate with the children. It is natural that children behave with
hostility when they do not get what they want if you want them to listen, you
must know the reason in order to stop the stubbornness
** Start by asking
some questions about why bother him? Is there something ?? Do you want
something? To try to talk to him, this tells him that you respect his desire
** Negotiate does not
mean to give in to his request at a time and will be able to determine the
timing of the negotiations with the practice
** As in
determining the time of going to sleep that he insisted he will not go to sleep
at a certain timing negotiate with him on the timing, which wants
8. The composition of a favorable environment in the house:
Children learn a
lot of observation and experience. If children found that parents are arguing
so much nervous will learn of them believe that this is the method that must be
followed
Bickering between
parents creates an environment of stress and tension in the house which affects
children's behavior
9. understand the perspective of children:
I understand the
stubborn child's behavior better you must put yourself in position and try to
imagine that I was in his position what would you do ??? The more you know
about your child whenever you can to deal with the better and the less
stubbornness with you
For example, if
the child does not want to lead his homework, it is possible that the duty is
not convincing for him or to be really difficult to understand
10. Support positive behavior:
There are some
positions that do not know how to behave with a stubborn child, but in general
you should calm down and do not leave the neural control the reins and you
should always put yourself in your child's place and trying to ask him to
understand things,
Now Snqs some
usual attitudes and tell you some of the strategies that can be followed with a
stubborn child in order to implement what you want without having to hit or
nerve
1. Do not go to sleep:
Play music or the Qur'an:
Much research has
shown that children love music and beautiful voices. This quiet sounds will
help them a lot to sleep without even having to intolerance only Almnaakecah
and debate run what he loves stubborn child and you'll find at your order
The game "yes":
Stifel Dr. Mann
says that this game is very suitable for the child's mind is so stubborn child
asking three questions in a row you know that Sajebha yes and are encouraging
the meantime, it then Celine child wants to play with you then you are asking
what you want to implement it, and will do so
2. eat:
Negotiation:
Ask him about the
food you want to eat and try to confuse him and between health and wholesome
foods that must be addressed, but you must be careful not to talk about
anything about who does not want not even describe to him the foods that make
up what to eat and try to eat with him to give him confidence
Candy:
All children love
sweets. Play with the child's game, so the game between you and him be eating
the same food and end the whole food or terminate first deals with candy
pieces, but you must make a small piece of candy so as not to harm him
3. The non-implementation of the duty of the house:
Understand the problem child:
You must sit down
with him and see what his problem is the lack of implementation to be carried
out it will not be only for the reason for the same duty or that he can not
focus, so you should notice what his problem through some questions and talk to
him or sit with him and understanding during this
Make it a fun game:
Singing or awards
or the thrill of the things that children love because they make them feel fun
Reverse what he wants:
That you are sure
that the child does not want to implement the duty he does not want it, and by
then you must move away from it and punish him, but properly so as not to give
it a share of his candy, for example, or do not make it a favorite program to
him on television see and move away from it and leave it alone before the task
of implementing the duty to think while some moments doing before he asks aid
must also be monitored, but after all
If you have other
position when the children told them and share with us and view the sweet you
have proposed for
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